Should I Feel Desperate About Receiving Interview Feedback?
Here’s the honest truth job seekers rarely talk about.
You’ve done the interview.
You answered every question.
You smiled. You followed up.
And now? Silence.
If you’re wondering, “Should I feel desperate about getting feedback?” — let’s talk about it.
Because the truth is:
No, you shouldn’t feel desperate.
But it’s okay to feel anxious, hopeful, or even a little frustrated.
Why Do We Feel This Way?
After an interview, especially for a job you really want (or need), waiting can feel like torture.
You replay your answers.
You refresh your inbox.
You even check if your email is working properly.
Here’s why it hits hard:
You’re not just applying for a job — you’re hoping for change.
You’ve probably been rejected before.
You gave your all, and now the silence feels like failure.
But here’s the truth — your value does not reduce based on someone else’s response time.
What Desperation Does (And Why You Should Resist It)
Desperation isn’t just a feeling — it’s a mindset.
It says:
“This is my only shot.”
“If they don’t choose me, I’m not good enough.”
“I need them more than they need me.”
But that’s not true. And it’s not healthy.
Feeling desperate can cause you to settle for less than you deserve. Clouds your judgment in interviews or negotiations. Shifts your energy from confident to clingy — and recruiters can feel it. You’re not helpless. You’re not invisible. You’re just in a waiting season. Don’t let it shrink you.
What You Can Do Instead
Here’s what to focus on while waiting for feedback:
1. Follow up — professionally, once.
If it’s been 5–10 business days and they haven’t responded, it’s okay to check in.
Something short and assertive:
“I wanted to follow up regarding our interview for the [position] role. I remain interested and would appreciate any updates on next steps.”
Then — move on. No chasing. No double-texting. You’ve done your part.
2. Keep applying. Keep preparing.
Don’t pause your job search for one company.
Opportunities multiply when you’re not stuck waiting for just one.
The right employer won’t keep you in the dark.
3. Reflect and review.
Ask yourself:
What went well in the interview?
Where could I improve?
Do I even still want that job?
Not every silence is a rejection. Some are redirections.
4. Affirm your worth.
Whether or not they respond: you showed up. You did your best. That matters.
Their decision doesn’t change your value.
Final Words: You’re Not Desperate. You’re Worthy.
You’re not a desperate candidate.
You’re a prepared, growing, focused professional.
You’re not just hoping for a job — you’re looking for a place that deserves you.
Let them take their time. You keep taking your next step.
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